Pride month is upon us and we’re so very happy that marriage equality is recognized. We’ve been apart of some amazing same sex elopements, and frequently get asked the same questions. Couples often wonder about things such as the proposal, the procession and the expectations of a same sex marriage. Our expert pop-up wedding planners give you their tips below on how to plan a same sex elopement.
The Proposal
When it comes to same sex proposals, many wonder who proposes to whom? This is a popular question we get, but really the answer is simple: there is no black and white answer! The best advice we can give is to think about your individual personalities in the relationship. Maybe your partner is someone who likes to be swooned on and get attention. It’s also a good idea to have a talk with your partner before hand to make sure you’re on the same page.
The Procession
While it’s very typical for the groom to wait at the altar while the bride enters from an opposite side of the room, there aren’t any rules to who is presented to whom. Oftentimes we have couples walk each other down the aisle, or individually get escorted by each set of parents and meet at the alter. It really comes down to personal preference of what feels relaxed, fun and meaningful to you.
The Pronouncement
A common pronouncement you’ve probably heard before is “I now pronounce you man and wife!” To change this for your same sex elopement, think of your personalities and what you would honestly prefer. Again there are no set rules to what you are pronounced as. We’ve had couples change it to wife and wife, partners for life, or even just married!
As you can see, there are many ways you can get creative and make your same sex elopement represent you as a couple. Don’t be afraid to shy away from traditions. What was once expected is now boring, dry and not all-inclusive. If you need help planning your same-sex pop up wedding, contact our elopement planners today!